obsessing vs being the obsession.

• snert: have you two spoken?
• me: maybe like 2 times
• snert: boo
• me: she is just so wrapped up in it
• snert: that is awful
• me: so consumed
• snert: that is so bad
• me: it is okay though, i am moving on with life
• snert: yeah, she will snap out of it
• snert: that happens with some girls
• snert: then the romance wears off a bit and they come up for air
• me: exactly
• me: i have decided that there are two types of women in life that you encounter as friends: the types that get obsessed with men and they types that men obsess about because they could give two shits
• me: its one way or another ya know?
• me: i just really hate codependency
• snert: yeah, it's dangerous to get that lost in a relationship
• snert: you need your friends to remind you of who you are
• snert: and who you were before you met 'the guy'
• me: exactly.