Friday, February 22, 2008
" :: clooney + clinton
" :: dylan + snow
" :: talent
" :: the same
obsessing vs being the obsession.
- snert: have you two spoken?
- me: maybe like 2 times
- snert: boo
- me: she is just so wrapped up in it
- snert: that is awful
- me: so consumed
- snert: that is so bad
- me: it is okay though, i am moving on with life
- snert: yeah, she will snap out of it
- snert: that happens with some girls
- snert: then the romance wears off a bit and they come up for air
- me: exactly
- me: i have decided that there are two types of women in life that you encounter as friends: the types that get obsessed with men and they types that men obsess about because they could give two shits
- me: its one way or another ya know?
- me: i just really hate codependency
- snert: yeah, it's dangerous to get that lost in a relationship
- snert: you need your friends to remind you of who you are
- snert: and who you were before you met 'the guy'
- me: exactly.
" :: alcott
compare + contrast
Both of these women were on CBS yesterday morning. See if you can tell who has the skewed view of what is in a woman’s best interest.
“We spend money we don’t have, to impress people we don’t even know or like. We have no money in our savings. We have very little in our 401k plans. We don’t have a penny to our name, yet, oh, we all look so pretty. We look so pretty…You know how many women stay in a relationship that they don’t want to be in? And why is it that they don’t leave? Because they don’t have the money to leave.” - Suze Orman
“You better start thinking about your financial future…Because nobody else is if you don’t. And if you think that’s unromantic, I’m sorry. That’s a fact of life. It’s realistic. I care about women. And I don’t want to see them get hurt”. -Patti Stanger talking about why fortune hunting is a must.
" :: via my mother
american apparel yumm
These American Apparel over the knee opaque socks are the hot-ness. I’m buying almost every color. Sexy!
gossip girl boots.
Serena on Gossip Girl.
I MUST OWN THESE BOOTS.
Does anyone recognize them? They look sort of Steve Madden-esque to me … But if you find the link I’ll pay you back in smile-y face emoticons.
UPDATE:
HURRAY!!! The mystery has been solved. Those are Chinese Laundry “Top” boots. Buy them (along with me) here. Thank you to early risers Jennifer, EC and Christina, who all pointed them out to me. And now, as promised:
:) :) :) :) :) !!!
I own these boots in both suede and leather (they are so cheap!) You’ll love them.
EDIT: If you buy these (or any shoes) at ChineseLaundry.com you get 10% off if you enter the code: COUPONPOUCH
" :: worthy seas
my friend wants to hook me up with this guy.
This guy saw photos of me at my friend’s apt and wants to meet me. Sigh. She said she’d ask me if I was interested. This is how he described himself to her when she asked how she should ‘describe’ him to me.
Here’s my personality: I was briefly moonlighting as a fashion model, but I get $8 haircuts from a 72-year old Italian guy. The haircuts are terrible, but I love to drop a huge tip and hear him brag about his pudgy grandkids so I keep going. Afterwards I kick myself every time I look in the mirror for 2 weeks until it grows out. A month later I wonder how the old guy is doing, cancel my appointment at the SoHo salon that serves you a pinot noir while you look at awful Julian Schnabel prints, grab my 8 bucks and go back to see the old guy again. He says, “Geez, where ya been, I thought-a you move to Brazil to grow teak trees or somethin’ crazy like dat!” and I say “Not a bad idea, Vittore: not a bad idea at all.” Then he wrecks my sideburns like a drunken matador.
I think I am actually intrigued. Assuming he really wrote this. Which is a big assumption.
" :: southern insanity
Top 10 Internet Etiquette Guidelines.
1. Use Computer Courtesy
Whether a person is sending an email, chatting in a chat room or speaking in a forum, it is important to be courteous and respectful of others online. Always remember the Golden Rule!
2. Use Emoticons
When communicating online, it can be difficult to gauge a writer’s emotion. Unless a web camera or microphone is used, the writer’s expression or emotion is difficult to determine. By using emoticons, the writer’s proper emotion will be conveyed to the reader.
3. Be Brief Online
It is important to keep messages short, especially when writing an email or typing in a chat room. By using common chat abbreviations or acronyms, not only will the reader appreciate the brevity of the message, it will save the author valuable time typing the message. Remember, keep it short and be brief!
4. DON’T SHOUT
No matter what forum, writing in all capital letters is considered SHOUTING and is considered very rude. A word or two in caps is fine, but shouting is not recommended.
5. Pay Attention to Language Issues
Improper, inappropriate or bad language may get a participant kicked out or permanently banned from a forum or group. It is also important to remember people from other countries may be participating in the conversation and language barriers may be an issue.
6. Think Before Posting
It is important to note, what is posted online today, may come back and haunt the writer tomorrow. That silly or fun photograph posted on a social networking site, may keep that person from getting a job later on. Many colleges and employers are now searching social networking sites prior to hiring.
7. Keep Personal Information Private
Posting private and personal information in the wrong location can have serious consequences. Identity theft is a rapidly growing concern. Divulging too much information could give predators and those with bad intentions valuable information. Be careful where personal information is posted. If private information is posted in a group setting, read the guidelines prior to posting. Children should not post private information online
8. Obey Copyright Laws
Obey copyright laws. Don’t steal!
9. Help Internet Newbies
Be patient and helpful with others. Remember, everyone was newbie once.
10. Be Aware of Cyberbullying
Cyberbullying is increasing rapidly. Parents should talk honestly and openly to children about the issues of electronic bullying. Studies suggest many children do NOT tell a trusted adult if they are a victim of electronic bullying. If targeted by a cyberbully, do not respond. Keep all ORIGINAL correspondence, with dates and times if possible. If the messages are of a threatening nature or safety is a concern, contact local law enforcement as soon as possible.
By following these simple and straightforward Netiquette guidelines, the online experience will be enjoyable and safe for all!
Thursday, February 21, 2008
" :: importance of laughter
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
men + their video games.
- griffin: today is my first day back
- griffin: I took of tue and wed
- me: thats nice
- me: what did you do
- griffin: killed Nazis and defended france
- me: were you that stoned?
- me: you are crazy
- griffin: no I am an airborne ranger in the US marine Corp
Turkish Baths.
I really want to go to these Russian and Turkish baths in the East Village for some reason. My friends think it is disgusting and don’t want to go. Has anyone been? I’d love to feel some steam and relax with some vodka. That sounds 100% like heaven.
times to go, times to stay.
(phone buzzes on desk)
- Me: Hi Daddy!
- Dad: Hi Sarah, What are you doing?
- Me: Blogging on Tumblr when I should be working
- Dad: Laughs. Sigh. Pause.
- Me: Daddy whats wrong?
- Dad: You know how I have always told you that in life you have to know when to go and when to stay and trust that life allows you to do both when it is best?
- Me: Yes.
- Dad: Your grandmother left this morning.
- Me: (tears swell). I'm sorry dad.
- Dad: She died earlier this morning in the ER. She wanted to be with your grandfather. It was time. It was time for her to go.
- Me: I'm so sorry daddy.
- Dad: Its ok, I know she is happy, at peace. That is all you can ever want for someone you love ,for them to be at peace, in life and in death.
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Monday, February 18, 2008
what NEVER to do if you work in PR.
For those of you who haven’t been following this, I thought I’d share these threads about the Edelman PR/Walmart/Ethics scandal.
It is a really good study in what to never do.
The WalMart saga:
http://thecycle.prweekblogs.com/2007/03/30/yet-more-thoughts-on-wal-mart-edelman-new-yorker/
Message to employees “sometimes you just have to stand up there and lie”
http://gawker.com/356220/sometimes-you-just-have-to-stand-up-there-and-lie
CEO of Edelman replies to lie post:
http://gawker.com/356716/edelman-ceo-responds-to-gawker
And they reply to him:
" :: my name is earl.
the guy you like on match.com? yeah. he didn't write his own profile.
via Wall Street Journal: Hugh Gallagher, a 36-year-old writer in New York, is one of the copied. Match.com has more than 50 profiles with parts of Mr. Gallagher’s college entrance essay, which he penned nearly two decades ago and later appeared in Harper’s Magazine. “I translate ethnic slurs for Cuban refugees” and “I write award-winning operas” are among Mr. Gallagher’s most popular lines.
The book “Online Dating for Dummies” tells readers not to fret about copying. TheProfileCoach.com, meanwhile, offers 12 “proven” profiles for $4. Sample: “There is a shallowness, a fakeness to much of the ‘singles scene.’” A number of blogs offer free headlines for social-networking profiles, including, “Ernie’s train of thought has derailed.
Ummm and this is surprising?
Sunday, February 17, 2008
obama huge Evita fan?
Spotted inside the Houston campaign office of Barack Obama—-the Cuban flag with Che Guevara’s face imposed on it. Hmmmm.
jessica simpson's new reality show.
This must be her final stand, yes?
Saturday, February 16, 2008
" :: twain
-Mark Twain
Friday, February 15, 2008
The Rumor Mill Revealed.
I am totally going to this place.
"Located at 80 Clinton Street on the Lower East Side of Manhattan, New York City. This had opened by 1914 as the Clinton Star Theatre, screening movies and also was used as a Yiddish theatre. It had a seating capacity of 1,228. By 1926 it was known as the Clinton Theatre. It closed by 1949 and today is used as a Home Basics store in the former orchestra level, which still has some decorative detail to be seen. The former balcony was in use in 2000 as a recording studio, but I believe this closed and the space is currently unused."
via Eater.
Thursday, February 14, 2008
tumblr rox
" :: falling star
republicans rectangle valentine's day.
love playlists :: mood, moment, men
I have tons of Playlists on my iPod. It works better with the Bose home system to have Playlists, I’ve found. Anyhow, like many other females I am sure, I have several ‘love lists’ that vary depending on mood, moment, men.
Here are some of my favorites (I welcome suggestions, music recommendations are the best!)
Hopeful Love:
- Unchained Melody-Righteous Brothers
- I Want to Know What Love Is-Foreigner
- I’ll Stand By You-Pretenders
- You’re Still the One-Shania Twain
- She’s Got A Way-Billy Joel
- You’re In My Heart-Rod Stewart
- I’ll Be There for You-Bon Jovi
- Better Together-Jack Johnson
- How Deep is Your Love-BeeGees
- Always on My Mind-Willie Nelson
- When Can I See You Again-Babyface
- All I Ask of You-Phantom of the Opera
- All You Need is Love-Beatles
- Be Mine-David Gray
- Ice Cream-Sarah MacLachlan
- Best for Last-Vanessa Williams
- At last-Etta James
- Shelter-Ray LaMontagne
- Something in the Way She Moves-James Taylor
- Can’t Help Falling in Love-Elvis
- God Only Knows-Beach Boys
Endless Love:
- By Your Side-Sade
- Your Song-Elton John
- Wonderful Tonight-Eric Clapton
- I’ll Be There-Jackson 5
- You’re All I Need to Get By-Marvin Gaye
- Your Body is a Wonderland or Comfortable (tie)-John Mayer
- You’re the First, The Last, My Everything-Barry White
- Endless Love-Diana Ross & Lionel Richie
- Everything I Do, I do it for You-Bryan Adams
- You Are So Beautiful-Joe Cocker
- You are the Everything-REM
- You are the Sunshine of My Life-Stevie Wonder
- Have I told You Lately That I love You-Van Morrison
Crossroads Love:
- Let’s Stay Together-Al Green
- If You Leave Me Now-Chicago
- Right Here Waiting-Richard Marx
- I Will Always Love You-Whitney Houston
- Wicked Game-Chris Isaak
- The Rose-Bette Midler
- Open Arms-Journey
- More Than Words-Extreme
- Jolene-Ray LaMontagne
- Always on Your Side-Sheryl Crow
- Hide Your Love Away-Beatles
- With or Without You-U2
- Close to You-Carpenters
Unrequited Love:
- November Rain-Guns N Roses
- Don’t Speak-No Doubt
- Love Song-Sara Bareilles
- Hero-Enrique Iglesias
- It Must’ve Been Love-Roxette
- How Do I Live-Leann Rhimes
- I’d Do Anything For Love, But I Won’t Do That-Meatloaf
- Total Eclipse of The Heart-Bonnie Tyler
- Never Again-Justin Timberlake
- The Hardest Thing-98 Degrees
- If You’re Not the One-Daniel Beddingfield
- I’m Not for You-Bob Dylan
- Hopelessly Devoted To You-Olivia Newton John
Down on Love:
- Heartbreak Hotel-Elvis Presley
- All Out of Love-Air Supply
- This Year’s Love-David Gray
- Un-Break My Heart-Toni Braxton
- Iris-Goo Goo Dolls
- Love Takes Time-Mariah Carey
- I Never Cry-Alice Cooper
- Here Without You-3 Doors Down
- Best I ever Had-Vertical Horizon
- More Than a Feeling-Boston
- I Can’t Make You Love Me-Bonnie Raitt
- Alone-Heart
- He Stopped Loving Her Today-George Jones
- Slow Dancing in a Burning Room-John Mayer
- Cry, Cry, Cry-Johnny Cash
Monday, February 11, 2008
Why I'm not keeping up the Meat Rack
Read this blog post about the Page Six Magazine's expose of a Blogger from Gawker "done wrong" by his fellow Gawker Blogger girlfriend, supposedly.
Or click on the above, it will expand.
Page Six Mag is in the dark ages and doesn't have their shit online. Above is the story pieced together.
I find this all to be so, so, so sad. Can't we be ourselves and express ourselves without hurting relationships? Can't we as bloggers--and as people---be open and honest while still being honest with our partners?
You will understand why this all makes me think twice about any offers to live my life online.
It is not worth it to write about relationships for me right now, it just isn't.
Marc Jacobs' pornalicious boy toy has a potty mouth.
This guy just will not shut up.
Once again he took to his blog to start, I mean, hmmm...errr...dispel... any rumors about him doing anything with Marc Jacobs. Riiiiighhht. If there is no story, then why talk?
The afterparty was just as amazing. The Daily News claimed there was alot (sic) of sexula (sic) tension in the air:
"And then there was Jacobs' sometime fiancé Jason Preston, who found himself face-to-face with ab-rific porn star Erik Rhodes. All three of them got dirty on the dance floor and in a banquette. It was Jason touching Erik and Erik touching Jason and both of them touching Marc all night long.
When we asked Eric about his relationship with Jacobs, he just lifted his shirt to reveal a 12-pack. Guess we had our answer."
Sorry that's not exactly what happened... but it sounds like a good story right. Like i talk by showing my abs and it just happens to mean :"yes daily news, marc and i fuck our brains out". Like i said before, this just goes to show you, that you cant believe everything you read.
The afterparty was just as amazing. The Daily News claimed there was alot of sexula tension in the air:
"And then there was Jacobs' sometime fiancé Jason Preston, who found himself face-to-face with ab-rific porn star Erik Rhodes. All three of them got dirty on the dance floor and in a banquette. It was Jason touching Erik and Erik touching Jason and both of them touching Marc all night long.
When we asked Eric about his relationship with Jacobs, he just lifted his shirt to reveal a 12-pack. Guess we had our answer."
Sorry that's not exactly what happened... but it sounds like a good story right. Like i talk by showing my abs and it just happens to mean :"yes daily news, marc and i fuck our brains out". Like i said before, this just goes to show you, that you cant believe everything you read.
" : gwyneth paltrow is amazing.
" :: celebrity is.
Emily Dickinson
Strawberry Fields Forever
The fact that i’ve been living in new york for 2 years and no one told me about this makes me very mad.
Pepsi could be beautiful.
Jesse Kaczmarek is a seriously talented designer based in NYC. If only Pepsi would produce cans this beautiful.
" :: someday.
—Vincent (Tom Cruise in Collateral)
My thoughts: God I hope not. This is obviously super pessimistic…but life IS what you make it and I think sometimes I (and perhaps we all are) inclined to not seize the day as much as we should.
They all wish they had Tom Brady's genes.
Peyton has on the hat. They are all gross. Ewe. If only they had Tom Brady’s genes. Winner or loser, he’s damn sexy.
Rachel Zoe's Spring Shoe Selections
the valentines that I am sending.
Etsy :: AlcovePress :: Obama Inspired Valentine.
So funny, I was just saying “I want to Barack your world” (!) yesterday to my ex ex ex ex boyfriend, it was a joke, we’re friends. He found it stupid and cheesy.
Gossip Gays?
I don't know about this appealing to the right demo? Do gay men watch Gossip Girl? I was thinking more wanna be rich kids and suckers like me who just eat up melodramatic silly tv shows.
Side note: This is the first photo I’ve ever seen where Chase Crawford (center) looks bad . Were they trying to make him look like shit on purpose?
Blair versus Serena.
Tara Subkoff for Bebe : L-O-V-E (!)
I am really loving her entire line for Bebe, especially this wrap dress. I think it is a must have. It looks like it would look fab on any body type, including my scrawny one, so I'm going to check it out.
Has anyone seen it in person? I'd never do the hearts, although they are cute. And the thought of going into a Bebe store kind of scares me...
Sunday, February 10, 2008
" :: grammy madness
Carrie Underwood, lovely, always.
Nas and Kelis :: an example of trashy marketing.
Finally, an explanation about the Orange bikes.
I am up in the air on this. Part of me thinks it is a super smart move on behalf of DKNY and truly a stealth WOM/guerrilla marketing operation that I would have come up with (since I'm so smart and great, of course). The other part of me thinks that it is in poor taste considering how the white bikes mean lost soldiers.
The jury is out on this one. For the NYPD, it was obviously considered to be in poor taste borderline illegal.
" :: Obama is California
Saturday, February 9, 2008
Paris' Publist is not an Alien ?
the Eater deathwatch debate.
They have a regular feature there where they “Deathwatch” restaurants for a variety of reasons (losing a chef, bad NYT review, horrible concept from day #1, etc).
Last week they deathwatched Suba, one of my favorite NYC tapas joints bc of bad location (Rivington) for that type of dining (aka expensive).
What is interesting is the debate in the ‘comments’ of this Deathwatching that has ensued since it occured. The commenters raise a question (which I am sure has been raised 100 kajillion times) which is—what is the power of industry-focused blogs like this? And what is their responsibility to those establishments/people that they write about?
If you are stating an opinion that could potentially impact an individual or entity, what is your ethical liability?
Is there an answer to this already that I am missing?
Some comment highlights:
“This is a case where Eater is trying to make news not reflect on it. I frankly think it is irresponsible to deathwatch restaurants unless they are truly teetering on the edge. People put a lot of time and money into places and for some blog to create rumors of a potential closing can kill a business. Oh well. Guess that’s why they work at a blog instead of running a restaurant.”
“I guess it would be cool if Eater was powerful enough to close a restaurant. But I doubt that is true. so get over it. “
“As for the Deathwatch itself, yes it’s fucked up and parasitic for Eater to try to boost their readership by dancing on the grave of other people’s ambitions. It’s one thing to have an editorial viewpoint about whether a place is good or bad (which Eater doesn’t even try to do and in this case actually seems to think Suba is good), but this is just dumping on other people’s jobs and livelihood. What’s the point? Time to kill Deathwatch, and maybe even inject some positive news in here. The business is hard enough without parasites shitting on restaurants, particularly good ones.”